Dear Anne Moss,
I didn’t mean to hurt you. I numbed you at first because I had to protect you. One can take only so much pain and agony at once.
I watched you in your agonizing moments knowing that these would be building blocks to emotional healing. You suffered under my weight and tried unsuccessfully to lift it yourself when you got tired of it. But I do have a mind of my own and just when you thought you couldn’t take another minute, the weight would lift.
At first, you thought getting better meant getting past me. But then you learned that it was about incorporating me into your life in a way we could live together.
I will never go away because I represent the love you have for your child. I am that reminder that he lived and loved you. I hope you understand I’m not the nasty, bad thing people make me out to be. I’m not something people should avoid or be ashamed of. I’m not a “weakness.” Quite frankly, I don’t know where that comes from.
As you travel the path to emotional healing, I will inspire you to do things you would never have done. Meet people you would have never met. Help you become someone you never knew you could become.
I can make you feel like you can accomplish almost anything. You’ll be stronger for having had me in your life. I make life matter more.
I am sorry loss has to hurt so much but the path to joy is often through intense pain.
Remember, I didn’t take away your loved one. I’m the one that reminds you he lived.
I’m part of life. But most of all, I am love.
Yours Truly and Always in your Heart,