“At least she isn’t suffering.”
“At least you have other children.”
“At least you will no longer worry.”
“At least he is in heaven now.”
“At least he didn’t suffer.”
If you are thinking of starting any sentence with “at least” to a friend who has suffered a loss, you are essentially trying to polish grief with a coat of positive. In other words, you are invalidating someone’s feelings.
When I suffered a loss, I didn’t want anyone pointing out the good part of losing a child. There was nothing positive about Charles’ suicide. I was at the lowest point … Read more...