Forced medical leave. That’s how many colleges are dealing with the public health issue known as suicide.
Currently, suicide is the number two leading cause of death at colleges across the US. I was not aware that forcing and then preventing a student to return to college was the “solution” many colleges have adopted. That’s not a suicide prevention strategy, it’s a suicide avoidance strategy.
Until I was on a river cruise having a conversation with a mother whose son experienced this treatment, I was unaware of it. The number one issue for some colleges is to preserve their precious reputation. The goal is not to address the subject or help the student.
So they are perfectly fine with that student going home and killing themselves. As long as it’s not on their campus.
The mom I spoke with said that it’s known now among kids at prestigious private and Ivy league schools in particular, that students should not use the “D” word as that is a ticket for being forced out. (D= depression) This story from a young man who attended and graduated from Stanford. He kept his problems under wraps and unfortunately became addicted to Adderall, a common medicine of abuse at colleges– another problem not regularly addressed at colleges. Drug use is often associated with mental illness and suicide.
While Ivy Leagues should be supportive of students that need their services, they are actually discouraging students with mental health problems from attending their universities.
“In 2012, a student at Princeton overdosed on his antidepressant medication. Full of regret, he immediately sought help from the school’s health center. He was hospitalized for three days, made a full recovery, and then was forced to withdraw from the university. Instead of receiving further help and support from his own school, he was kicked out. The only message this sends to students is that they will be punished for seeking help for depression and other mental illnesses.” (Source: The College Crisis)
I want parents and students to know that taking a gap year and and doing something else, attending a trade school or starting with a community college are all good ideas. The pressure of success is literally killing our students. I also want you to know that the price of an Ivy League education, in particular, could very well cost a student his or her life. Is it really worth it?
Parents and students alike should be addressing it with speakers, campus walks and programs for suicide prevention. Instead, they are trying to bury the problem which does nothing for preventing unnecessary and preventable death.
Below are some articles expanding on what I’ve written here as well as resources for college support and re-entry.
Articles on the subject of getting “pushed out” of college for mental health issues
- We Just Can’t Have You Here
- How Colleges Stop Depressed Students From Returning To Campus
- Get Depressed in the Ivy League
- The Price of Privilege: How Parental Pressure and Material Advantage Are Creating a Generation of Disconnected and Unhappy Kids
- Going to an Ivy League School Sucks
- How to Prevent Your Ivy League Child From Becoming Suicidal
- High GPAs, Low Happiness?
Why are we seeing this uptick in depression and suicide?
Helpful resources for students struggling with mental illness and/or Substance Use Disorder (SUD)
Colleges with SUD recovery programs. Most of these are aimed at addiction recovery.
Challenge Success –At Challenge Success, we believe that our society has become too focused on grades, test scores, and performance, leaving little time for kids to develop the necessary skills to become resilient, ethical, and motivated learners. We provide families and schools with the practical, research-based tools they need to create a more balanced and academically fulfilling life for kids. After all, success is measured over the course of a lifetime, not at the end of a semester.
College Re-entry –This program is dedicated to helping students with re-entry into college after having withdrawn from their studies. This could be due to any issue including a suicide attempt to loss of a parent or even due to cancer treatment.
Interactive Screening Program (ISP) from AFSP, American Foundation of Suicide Prevention. Those who exchanged anonymous online messages with an ISP counselor were three times more likely to enter treatment. This program is successfully used at many US colleges. It’s an anonymous online tool for students experiencing mental health issues or suicidal ideation. It’s anonymous until they make the choice to reach out. Advocates – Ask your college to implement this program. UCLA ISP Program
It’s Real: College Students and Mental Health– There is a 20 minute film for incoming college freshmen and for high school juniors and seniors from the American foundation of suicide prevention as well. Your local AFSP chapter in Washington would have access to that and could arrange for it to be shown at venues in your area. I don’t know if you have events or not but this might be a good event to have to start the conversation and prevent suicide. They premiered it at the January 2017 leadership conference in CA to which I was invited to attend.
Hold a Campus Out of the Darkness Walk– This can be for high school or college and illustrates support to those who suffer suicidal ideation
Active Minds Chapters–Active Minds is a mental health organization at colleges across the US.